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libraralien) wrote2019-09-10 10:52 pm
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Femdom Exchange 2019
Dear Writer,
Thank you for writing for me! I have tried to provide some likes and dislikes here, but just know, in general I have very broad tastes. If you have certain kinks and tropes that are especially close to your heart or you are inspired to write for these pairings and you are nervous about writing them for me, unless I listed them as something I specifically DNW, you have my blessing. If I didn't list something as a DNW, it isn't probably isn't a squick for me, even if it's something that is often squicky or triggery for many people. Inversely, just because something isn't on my likes list doesn't mean I won't like it. If you think something is a little out there, just trust me: I will probably like it!
Some general themes of femdom related stuff I like:
Embarrassment (on the sub's part): Anything from adorable blush-y awkward fumblings to gentle teasing to deep and damaging shame, humiliation, and guilt. Sexual dysfunction and bodies not behaving as wanted. Inexperience and not knowing what to do. The sub feeling embarrassed/guilty/shameful about wanting to submit. It can be sweet, or it can be fraught and guilty. I generally prefer if the embarrassment/humiliation come from the sub's own internal issues, rather than the woman purposefully humiliating them.
Body and Gender Stuff/Power dynamics: I love most stuff playing with gender or bodies, especially the ways bodies can be unique or different. Body hair, scars, injuries, sweat, fluids, wrinkles: all the little unglamorous details of sex and bodies. I also like the complex relationships and power dynamics between people. Some other assorted good bits and pieces: sexual dysfunction, bathing and washing, body hair, crossdressing/feminization, menstrual sex, pegging/strap-ons, the man getting fingered.
Non or minimally penetrative sex/Loss of bodily control: There is something about character's being too eager to get it on to even make it to more involved sex acts, or not being allowed by the woman to do anything more involved, that I love (for instance, dry humping, coming in pants, premature ejaculation, masturbation). Orgasm delay/denial is a particular fave!
General DNWs: soulmates, unrequested alternate setting AUs (i.e. Coffee shop AUs, Regency AUs) (Canon-divergence/fix-its/alternate endings are all totally fine), asexual/aromantic headcanons, kidfic, reader-insert
Smut DNWs: scat, sounding, vore
Fandom Prompts:
The Terror (TV 2018)
Sophia Cracroft doms Francis Crozier
I like to think they did it, at least once, and that it was a weird time. I would love to see Crozier performing generally poorly, out of nerves, embarrassment, or what have you, and Sophia realizing she has to take control if this is going to happen at all. I really love the "Francis Crozier's sexual dysfunction" trope, so I would love some fic really digging in to Crozier's shame/anger/humiliation at his dick not working (I would prefer all these feelings be internal and for Sophia not to humiliate him purposefully). Maybe Sophia shrugs and tells him to go down on her. Maybe she suspects that, though an Irishman, he has a touch of the English Vice, and spanks/canes him into erectness. Or maybe you have other ideas? I like the idea of her being down sexually, but also keeping him at a distance by rejecting his offer of marriage. Any digging into the power dynamics of their relationship generally would also be interesting.
Better Call Saul (TV)
Kim Wexler doms Jimmy McGill
Ever since the scene of the of Jimmy painting Kim's toenails, I have not been able to stop thinking about some feet based sex thing going on between the two of them (footj-ob, her putting her toes in his mouth, him just jerking off while looking at her freshly painted toes, all options). I would also be into exploring Kim's joke about talking dirty over the phone actually coming to fruition. Also, anything involving cigarettes and smoking (him lighting her cigarettes for her, her blowing smoke in his face, smoking during or after sex) would be great. I like how natural their chemistry is and like the idea of the two of them just naturally falling into a certain power dynamic. I will admit, I have not watched the most recent season, but also I don't care about spoilers, so feel free to include it or not. I haven't seen how their relationship began, so that might be interesting to explore, but given the overall depressing vibe of the show, I'd also just love to see some small happy moments between the two of them.
Phantom Thread (2017)
Alma Elson doms Reynolds Woodcock
I just want to see the continued consensual-poisoning Happily Ever After for these two. What does "flat on your back, helpless, tender, open, with only me to help" looks like? It can be as messed up as you'd like, but I would like them both to be happy and into it. Femdom-y sickfic, gentle caretaking h/c (with the knowledge that she is the one that hurt him and that she will again, his enthusiasm for being poisoned), explorations of the power dynamics in their relationship and how it continues to change into something they are both happy with, subtly flirting when other people/doctors are around. Emeto/vomit is absolutely fine for this pairing, if you want, anything as vague as her rubbing his back and comforting him through nausea and vomiting, to full on detailed descriptions of her having to stick her fingers in his throat to help him be sick. If you go for a porn angle, maybe some reflection on how their sex is different when he is still weak and recovering from being poisoned vs. when he isn't.