libraralien | Femdom Exchange 2020

Dear Writer,
Thank you for writing for me! I have tried to provide some likes and dislikes here, but just know, in general I have very broad tastes. If you have certain kinks and tropes that are especially close to your heart or you are inspired to write for these pairings and you are nervous about writing them for me, unless I listed them as something I specifically DNW, you have my blessing. If I didn't list something as a DNW, it isn't probably isn't a squick for me, even if it's something that is often squicky or triggery for many people. Inversely, just because something isn't on my likes list doesn't mean I won't like it. All the prompts I provided are just ideas, and I will probably like what you write for me!

Some general themes of femdom related stuff I like:

Embarrassment (on the sub's part): Anything from adorable blush-y awkward fumblings to gentle teasing to deep and damaging shame, humiliation, and guilt. Sexual dysfunction and bodies not behaving as wanted. Inexperience and not knowing what to do. The sub feeling embarrassed/guilty/shameful about wanting to submit. It can be sweet, or it can be fraught and guilty. I generally prefer if the embarrassment/humiliation come from the sub's own internal issues, rather than the woman purposefully humiliating them.

Body and Gender Stuff/Power dynamics: I love most stuff playing with gender or bodies, especially the ways bodies can be unique or different. Body hair, scars, injuries, sweat, fluids, wrinkles: all the little unglamorous details of sex and bodies. I also like the complex relationships and power dynamics between people. Some other assorted good bits and pieces: sexual dysfunction, bathing and washing, body hair, crossdressing/feminization, menstrual sex, strap-ons, men getting fingered.

Non or minimally penetrative sex/Loss of bodily control: There is something about character's being too eager to get it on to even make it to more involved sex acts, or not being allowed by the woman to do anything more involved, that I love (for instance, dry humping, coming in pants, premature ejaculation, masturbation). Orgasm delay/denial is a particular fave!

General DNWs: soulmates, unrequested alternate setting AUs (i.e. Coffee shop AUs, Regency AUs) (Canon-divergence/fix-its/alternate endings are all totally fine), asexual/aromantic headcanons, kidfic

Smut DNWs: scat, sounding, vore

Fandom Prompts:

20th Century CE RPF
Eartha Kitt doms James Dean and Paul Newman

It might have happened! Some assorted inspiration:

Eartha Kitt on James Dean:

[James Dean] said to me, ‘I want to move like you, can you teach me how to move my body like you do on stage?’ And I told him where to meet me, here in New York and that’s where we met for dance classes. And that’s where Jamie and I always met downstairs from that studio to have coffee, to have our little tete-a-tete conversations…

He had something in him that he didn’t understand. He wanted to learn from me how to move on the stage the way I do, so I taught him how to control his body and how to let the words physically carry you from this point to that point. I was in a play and he’d just done his first film so we were both becoming known at that time. It was a good time.

Picture of Eartha Kitt teaching James Dean ballet

Eartha Kitt (allegedly) on the (alleged) threesome:

I had both of them that afternoon, and I came to the conclusion that white boys are so delicious.

Video of James Dean and Paul Newman having chemistry

Picture Eartha Kitt's Catwoman outfit

I want to see your version of what happened in that dance studio! Did Eartha instruct them how to move their bodies in a different way? What made her decide they were so "delicious"? Have James Dean and Paul Newman hooked up with each other before, or was Eartha the push they needed to give in to their chemistry? I would like it if everyone had a good time and enjoyed it.

What We Do in the Shadows (TV)
Nadja doms Laszlo Cravensworth

Look, they are both very horny and have been married for a very long time and have definitely gotten up to all sorts of things. I am sure Nadja has dommed Laszlo at some point, likely many points. Some assorted ideas: an instance that their time at the orgy went well; doing things that would kill a mortal; blood stuff; role-playing (I would be fine if the role-playing was quite silly); Nadja is mad at Laszlo for something and he has to be her slave for some period of time (familiar-play?); using sex toys and/or torture devices; spanking or caning; boot-licking; Nadja keeping Laszlo in chastity; having fun in a historical setting from some time in their past. There are a lot of directions you could go with this one, and these are just some ideas. I am fine if the femdom is "revenge" for something Laszlo has done to annoy Nadja, but I would like everyone to ultimately have a good time. Feel free to go for a goofy vibe with this one, if you want.

Phantom Thread (2017)
Alma Elson doms Reynolds Woodcock

I just want to see the continued consensual-poisoning Happily Ever After for these two. What does "flat on your back, helpless, tender, open, with only me to help" looks like? It can be as messed up as you'd like, but I would like them both to be happy and into it. Femdom-y sickfic, gentle caretaking h/c (with the knowledge that she is the one that hurt him and that she will again, his enthusiasm for being poisoned), explorations of the power dynamics in their relationship and how it continues to change into something they are both happy with, subtly flirting when other people/doctors are around. Emeto/vomit is absolutely fine for this pairing, if you want, anything as vague as her rubbing his back and comforting him through nausea and vomiting, to full on detailed descriptions of her having to stick her fingers in his throat to help him be sick. If you go for a porn angle, maybe some reflection on how their sex is different when he is still weak and recovering from being poisoned vs. when he isn't.